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What are your views on the rising teen sex issues? In bigger metropolitan cities and small towns, teens are having sex parties, oral groups, and casual sex as well as sex too early, and getting pregnant as young as 12. What are your views do you know of a specific story or event that has to deal with this large issue?
THanks for your answers! | I really don't think these "sex parties" are happening as much as the media would like us to believe.
I am the mother of a teenage boy and we watched some show on TV about that subject. He and I have always talked openly about sex , and relationships and such, and he specifically said they he wished those parties existed but he sure didn't know about any. I have also noticed among his friends that most of them are still pretty naive and still have a pretty healthy fear of the opposite sex.
Not that they are totally innocent. I know better than that.
I think if more families would be a little more open about discussing sexual matters with their guys and stop treating the subject as if it's some dirty taboo, guys would not have to find out from their friends what it's all about.
IMHO
Peace | Some movies like "thirteen" with teen partying/drugs/sex etc? what are some movies that are similar to the movie Thirteen?
Like with drugs,partying,sex..etc involving teens? | | KIDS | What do teens do at a teen party? Hi I'm 16 and I never been to a teen party before.I would like to start going to some teen parties but I need to know what its like.Is it true teen parties these days are just sex,drugs and drinking or is it more creative like fun party games to pass time,socialising etc.
Would be great if someone who has been to one would explain what one is like. | No party that I went to when I was 16 didn't have alcohol. Just because it's there doesn't mean you have to partake. Parties are based for socializing....and getting wasted.
It's all in good fun, just be responsible. | Why is society putting pressure on teens to have sex and party all the time? Like if sex and partying is some sort of necessity? I'm 18 & it's driving me crazy! | SOCIETY????
it's not us, /\sshole, it's YOU! You're the ones who are feeding yourself all this bullshit. And you're swallowing it whole. | What are some books involving teenage life and drama's? That include the theme of sex, parties, love, and teen? I really liked reading books that talk about girls going to parties and doing stupid things... falling in love with guys :) i'm very big on reading and i don't have a book....any suggestions? | Chicken Soup Series
If I Have A Wicked Stepmother, Wheres My Prince
The Great Green Notebook of Katie Roberts
The Girls In The City
The Fear Street Series
The Bluford Series
IIsland Summer
Hes With Me
Crank
Burned
Glass
Impulse
Go Ask Alice
The Clique
The Georgia Niocolson Series
Oh My Gods
Alice Alone
The Face on the Milk Carton
Jays Journal
Schooled
Perfect
Lush
The Del Rio Bay Series
Gossip Girl
Pretty Little Liars
Alphas
Lily B. On The Brink of Cool
the Ashleys
Stargirl
Love, Stargirl
Speak
Catalyst
The Last Exit To Normal
Romiette and Julio
Twisted
The Queen of Second Place
The Outsiders
That Was Then This Is Now | Does anyone know any good teen books ,a16 teenager would read? I like books with , Love and romance,comedy,teen parties ,sex, drugs you know the deal!
****Please nothing with like vampires, wolves dragons etc | you might like something by sarah dessen. i really liked her books.....they might be something your looking for.
"the truth about forever"- my favorite. her dad died and she has bottled up her emotion since. then she gets a summer job and makes new friends (and, of course, theres a guy) who show her how to enjoy life again.
"this lullaby"- this one sounds more like you, i think. she has never had a permanent guy in her life. her dad bailed before she was born, she just hooks up with guys at parties, etc...but then this guy-who isnt her type either- gets her to go out with him. she plans on just keeping him for a couple months but then she starts to finally understand that she is able to have stability............
"dreamland"- shes a good girl- cheerleader, good grades, family is all good, ect....then she starts going out with this guy. after awhile, things get really bad- when her boyfriend gets abusive...
"just listen"- in this one, she was in the popular crowd and everything, but then her best friend(who kinda owned the school) got really mad at her over summer. when they started school again, she was a loner. she ends up becoming best friends with this guy who helps her realize what she really wants. he always listens and will always tell the truth no matter what.
check out her website: sarahdessen.com | I'm having a teen party- turning 15! need a good movie-no sex or cussing..kissing's k.not TOO inappropriate? The party's today! Help! | I understand that Mean Girls was a great movie but they asked for a movie with no sex and cussing......did y'all not watch Mean Girls????
A great movie would be Sleepover with Alexa Vega. It was funny. Another good movie would be A Cinderella Story, The Prince and Me and Confessions of a Teenage Drama Queen with Lindsay Lohan. | Would it be bad to include sex in a teen novel? Sex and a party with drinking. I know it happens a LOT among teens but I was wondering if you guys think its inappropriate to include in a teen fiction novel. | It is a tough call. You really have to know your target audience and decide what would be appropriate for them. For young teens (under the age of say 15) I do not recommend going into such topics, you do not want your characters to become role models for bad behaviors. If you target audience is the late teens-early twenties, then it is not going to be a big deal.
Of course there are the cautionary tales, where the sex leads to pregnancy and STDs or the drinking causes blood alcohol poisoning or motor vehicular homicide. | Continuing my Q? On Teen Sex issues? Should we try and reduce the amount of sexual activity in guys these days? If yes, how? If no, Why not? Did your parents talk to you? Did your school tell you? Or did you learn on your own--the hard or fun or nervous way?
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What are your views on the rising teen sex issues?
In bigger metropolitan cities and small towns, teens are having sex parties, oral groups, and casual sex as well as sex too early, and getting pregnant as young as 12. What are your views do you know of a specific story or event that has to deal with this large issue?
And I work with students from elementary on up to freshmans in high school, so I know that this info isnt fake. I've worked in Dallas and San Antonio, with the rich and the poor, with the thugs and the preps--Sex issues are the same everywhere, the degree maybe different but the issues the same. | Yes we should try and reduce the level of sexual activity in our teens, especially amongst those who are hardly pubescent and certainly not mature enough to be giving any kind of meaningful consent.
I was lucky enough to have parents who cared about me enough to talk about anything and everything and protected me from myself when I was potentially vulnerable through my teenage years-no boys in the bedroom and a strictly enforced curfew were just two of the rules I adhered to whether I liked it or not.
I really believe that if parents started to be parents again as opposed to friends to their guyren and gave them a good, solid moral foundation (which is not necessarily religiously based) we would be seeing far fewer twelve year olds with babies.
The very fact that sex with a minor is illegal (in the UK it's below 16yrs) and yet there are very few, if any, prosecutions made-even when an eleven/twelve year old is pregnant belies belief-a minor is a minor is a minor and as such can not give consent-irrespective of how grown up they think they are.
Maybe I'm antiquated in my view and will be classed by many as a draconian parent but I don't intend to change my ways-my daughter, and for that matter my sons too, will be taught that their bodies are theirs alone and that they should respect not only themselves but others too.
The day when I (or my husband) sit laughing with my son at the expense of some infatuated teenage girl, encouraging him to 'get in there son' will be the day that hell freezes over.
We need to stop trying to sexualise our guyren from 5 and 6 years old, and start demanding appropriate clothing for their age groups-both male and female-I don't want my 7yr old to look like he's about to hit the local nightclubs any more than I will want my daughter to at the same age.
Sex education needs to be taught in conjunction with social science with morals and the emotional impact of a sexual relationship as important as the contraceptive and S.T.D. prevention aspects.
After all, you can't go back to holding hands now can you?
More over, we the adults need to start enforcing the laws that are designed to protect our guyren-regardless of whether they're going to thank us for it at the time.
I'd like to think that in years to come my guyren will come to me and talk about their choices-but realistically that is the ideal not the norm (even in very close, loving, understanding homes). The chances are that my guyren will embark upon their first sexual experience without telling me about it either before or after so it's my job to give them as much information, self confidence, respect and positive protection as I humanly can until they reach that point. And then support them past it.
Guyren are always going to be fascinated by anything that they're not supposed to do, regardless of their social standing and financial background-that's life. It's also why parents are responsible for them until they're 'of age', because whether the 'grown up' teens or the p.c. do-gooders out there like it or not the age of consent is a MINIMUM, not an indication of when to start. |
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