Anybody got any tips on outdoor bondage? Was planning on trying some bondage out in the woods with my girlfriend but I'm not sure how to tie people to trees (or tie people outside in general)... has anybody got any tips or advice please? :D
Or if anybody have any sites I could go to for reference, that'd also be great! |
Use your belts from your trousers to strap hands to trees, socks to gag and tie to blindfold. Basically make the most of what you have on for a walk in the woods instead of saying hello to dog walkers whilst holding leather gags, whips and harnesses so that once your in, its easy to undo the clasp on the belt, rip the sock out of the mouth and the tie from her eyes if anyone comes near without looking toooo suspicious.
have fun :) |
Are there any risks with outdoor bondage in this weather/time of year? I was just wondering if there'd be any problems in partaking in outdoor bondage (in a discreet location in the woods, of course). My girlfriend would be tied up in just underwear and it's going to be only 2 degrees C this weekend... is it advisable?
We're lacking any other locations to do this, which is why we're going to the woods... |
| cold nipples maybe, I'm not sure how thats a risk. You could put chapstick on them |
When is the folsom weekend festival in san francisco? there is a weekend s & m and bondage outdoor event coming to san francisco soon, i need a partner and a date. this event takes place on folsom street, several blocks long. |
| Try getting in touch with a local BDSM community in town. The Society of Janus (www.soj.org/ ) is based in San Francisco and is nationally known. I would recommend trying there first. I suspect that there will be a number of people that would be interested in attending with a partner. |
We enjoy our sex life, but have discussed trying swinging as a way of spicing it up; has anyone tried it? We have been quite adventurous between ourselves, and tried outdoor sex, bondage & domination games (my wife as the 'Mistress' mainly), dressing up in various ways, role reversal, etc., and other things, and have talked about trying swinging, but do not know anyone who has tried (as far as we know, at least!). We would be interested to know if anyone has experienced this and what it was like, as well as any practical advice on hows, dos, and don'ts. |
swinging is very much up to the individual couple.
There is two schools of thought, some say u cant be happy in ure relationship if ure swinging or thinking about doing so. They say it will lead to a split in the partnership. On the other side they say that swinging is only for those who are strong in thier relationship and have a clear understanding of the difference between making love and having sex
As we swing we fall into group two. We make love to each other and we have sex with others.
Before u start u have to have a talk about it. If one or both of u think u will be jealous, don't do it. You both have to have an agreement of how far u would go when u meet others, ie what u will and wont do.There is all differnt forms of swinging. form couples who like to see other play in the same room without contact to soft and to full. We have a safe phrase is one of us isnt happy with the wat things are going. We always meet people in public places 1st, ie a pub to see if we get on.
My best advice is to look for a site for swingers. There is hundreds that charge a membership fee but if ure lucky u will find one that is for swingers run by swingers and is free of have nominal charges.
Also keep in mind there is idiots, fakes and time wasters in every walk of life, including the swinging scene.
best of luck |
Can you guys tell me about your sexual fantasies? im trying to see how many different fantasies you guys can come up with. i am writing an article so just need help with that. so for example tell me about outdoor sex, bondage, ganbang etc share you fantasies with me |
Read Men In Love and Women On Top by Nancy Friday.
That will give you a huge insight into the vastness of the sexual imagination. |
Ladies, how do you prefer to...? have your legs tied? why?
Hogtie www.dominicwolfe.com/videos/dw/dw23/Leia21.jpg
Tied to the ceiling www.dominicwolfe.com/videos/dw/dw18/DW1852.jpg
Crossed www.bedroombondage.com/bondage/tour/45-anastasia-pierce-511p.jpg
Knees www.bedroombondage.com/bondage/tour/strappado-outdoor-anastasia710.jpg |
| I like to be hogtied |
Guys.... sex question......? how do you like it? dominatrix or you in charge? fave positions? her spitting? or swallowing? what turns you on most? do you prefer both being naked or top half of you both clothed? on top? or her on top? what feels best in sex? noisy sex or quiet sex? foreplay or none? slow or fast? if fast, how fast? in public places (like the woods) or private? indoor or outdoor? one of you in control the whole time? or swapping whos in control? fantasies? bondage? i want to know everything - whats best for YOU? |
Bit nosey aren't you? But as I'm in a good mood ...
I like it ... wherever, whenever
In charge ... sometimes
Fave positions ... all of them
Spit or swallow ... swallow but with a little bit dribbling on her chin
Naked or clothed ... naked
Who's on top ... either
Noisy or quiet ... noisy
Foreplay ... definitely!
Slow or fast ... depends on the time and place
Public or private ... both
Indoor or outdoor ... either
Fantasies etc. ... 3some with 2 girls, 3some with bloke, food, filming/photos, schoolgirl, nurse, I'll try most things!
So when are you available for a naughty night in a hotel? ;-) |
SEX round 2...Can you answer my question? Must be experienced.? My wife and I are very sexually liberal. We do not do threesomes or swing or anything outside of eachother. We love sex but are curious as to what other things we can do while keeping it between us.
We have:
- watched porn together
- done anal
- own sex toys and have used them
- have taken pictures and recorded ourselves
- tried virtually all positions
- done erotic literature
- role played which includes Doctor/patient, nurse/patient, jail guard/prisoner, student/teacher, boss/employee, strangers, virgin/experienced, older/younger.
- played sex games (incl. Onyx game, dirty dice, etc.)
- chatted on adult sites while the other sat by watching
- had sex in all different places. indoor and outdoor
- has sex in pools and shower
- had sex while on 420 (thats really good btw)
- stripped for eachother
So, does anyone have any new role play ideas, or anything else we can try?
We are NOT into bondage, S & M, vouyeristic adventures or male anal play.
Can you be the one to enlighten US??? Kudos to the one who has a whole box of new fresh ideas.
Please no answers that say:
"you have done everything"
"threesome/other person is all thats left" |
Try this:
1 of you pretend to own a sex resturaunt and cook a meal wearing just an apron and serve it and then when done eating do a sexy dance,Then offer the bill and if they can't pay make them work it of in whatever way you feel is good. |
Ladies, how do you prefer to...? have your legs tied? why?
hogtie www.dominicwolfe.com/videos/dw/dw23/Leia21.jpg
tied to ceiling www.dominicwolfe.com/videos/dw/dw18/DW1852.jpg
crossed www.bedroombondage.com/bondage/tour/45-anastasia-pierce-511p.jpg
knees www.bedroombondage.com/bondage/tour/strappado-outdoor-anastasia710.jpg |
| I prefer to be hogtied |