What if a heterosexual man like to have anal and oral sex with a casual sex partner does that make him gay? I been having protected casual sex with this guy i've know for about a few month. I'm aware of his freaky side and he wants to have anal sex. Although I have not with there with him b/c of the length of time we've know each other. Im just startin to wonder if he's on the dow low b/c of his presistant of wanting anul sex, like it's something of the norm?
I have not and will not have any kind of sex unless it under my own free will. I just also like to mention that I've been in 2 long term relationship for 14yrs. Im drug and disease free. And aware of AIDS and HIV and other STD's.
My question is. Is this the norm for people who date and or have casual sex? is he Gay? |
| Because this man likes anal doesnt make him gay, maby hes adventurous or likes it alot. If this worrys you alot maby you could approach him in a polite way and ask him why he likes anal so much. And explain untill your fully ready your not willing to do it. Only do it when your ready. Its a exspriance you want to share with some one you truelly trust. |
What if a heterosexual man like to have anal and oral sex with a casual sex partner does that make him gay? I been having protected casual sex with this guy i've know for about a few month. I'm aware of his freaky side and he wants to have anal sex. Although I have not with there with him b/c of the length of time we've know each other. Im just startin to wonder if he's on the dow low b/c of his presistant of wanting anul sex, like it's something of the norm? I have discuss this issue w/him he said that he likes to have anul sex,b/c he likes the way it feels. He ask for anal more than oral. I feel thats abnormal for someone who wants all this adventrous sex w/ all the STD's that are around. I just believe that being adventurous is for more of a monogamous relationship. have not and will not have any kind of sex unless it under my own free will. I just also like to mention that I've been in 2 long term relationship for 14yrs. Im drug and disease free. And aware of AIDS and HIV and other STD's.
My question is. Is this the norm for people who date and or have casual sex? is he Gay? |
| First of all, no one should try to label themselves as gay, straight, bisexual etc..., Truth be known, we are all truly bisexual by nature. Anyone, who will be honest, will tell you that they have thought of sex with men as well as with women. That said, no wanting anal sex does not make your boyfriend gay, he just wants to experiment with you, as I am sure that you do with him. We all have desires, and fantasies, this is obviously one of his. |
Concerns with gay anal sex? i suffer from paranoia. I have a partner who i think is std free cuz he's never had sex before with anyone else but me and he's 15. I am std free also but my main concern is there any possibity of me getting AIDS from him through any sexual contact? or am i just paranoid? |
| If he really is STD free, he does not have AIDS, which means he cannot give you AIDS. If you are really suspicious, have him get tested or use a condom. |
My teacher claimed I made a silly comment in relation to gay sex 'leading to disfigurement'? Why is this a foolish statement, I believe that there is a very high risk of disfigurement of the anus (as well as the enormous spread of bacteria and disease) by performing any sort of anal intercourse. Anal sex can never be free of very high risk, why is so much lubricant required? This was whilst we were discussing the various religious attitudes towards homosexuality (not that all homosexuals perform anal sex). When you speak of reasons not to practise anal intercourse, you need not just consider what it mentions in the Bible and especially the Qur'an, you must also consider the way in which you will be rearranged (probably irreversibly). |
| Well probably because the duscussion was about the religious view on homosexuality and you come in with unnecessary, crude comments about anal sex. There's a time and place for everything and this wasn;t it. |
A question about anal sex for uncurcimcised guys.? If you are under 18 yo of offended by gay/bisexual sex then please do not keep reading. I give this warning so this answer will not be reoprted and also this is why I have worded the question below as cleanly as possible,
A question for guys who have anal sex and are uncurcimcised. I am a bisexual guy and have been seeing this guy for a while now and we have decided to sto using condoms during anal sex. (we have both been tested so its safe). What I wanted to know is how do you make sure things dont get "dirty" (if you know what i mean) under the foreskin after anal sex. We have only done it condom free a couple of times but find that sometimes there is a little bit of "waste" stuck under the skin. I sort of spoils the moment and means we need to go straight for the shower afterwards instead of having a cuddle.
please no rude comments and if you have a problem with gay/bisexual sex then you shouldnt have even read the question.
Aussie guy. |
| I'm not gay but maybe an enema first? |
Should you use a condom your first time? When youre having gay anal sex for the first time should you use a condom or not? Let's just say that both partners are negative and free of any diseases. What risk would there be to not using a condom?
Thank you in advance :) |
| The reason for using a condom is not because its the first time - it should be used regularly. Many guys keep secrets and it only takes one other relationship to get involved even as far back as ten years to increase the risk many times. Do you really know if your guy has kept celebate when he is not with you. If you believe him go ahead - if not employ caution P&P :-) |
Is it just the anal sex that's the sin that Christians are so concerned with? Yet... apparently it's an abomination "to be" a bi-sexual or gay man?
I mean.... does the stigma thats attached to male bi-sexuality stem from people's ignorance of what actually happens with male/male contact? So.. if you surveyed 100 people of the general public on what they thought bisexual/gay men get up to.. the majority would immediately mention anal sex as the first thought.... The "sin" called sodomy. The other enjoyable activities kind of get ignored for that one thing.... yet inumerable bi and gay men don't like or indulge in anal sex.
So bi-sexual/lesbian women get a free hit and move forward three spaces whereas Bi-sexual men go directly to hell .... do not pass go .... do not collect $200?
What are your thoughts on this..... |
My God and Goddesses,
What have I stumbled onto here. People quoting scripture and going Gog shall, God Demands.... lets get on our crosses and have a whine.
As a strong Catholic who was considering priesthood and studied quiet indepth the real people and philosophies in the bible GO AND GET SOME PERSPECTIVE PEOPLE. It is all a really good story based on people based both in fact and fiction with way different stories than the ones you read on the net.
First of all let me answer your question. As the Mighty Bible states, and I use the term Mighty very losly, ANY SEX unless in the union of marriage is wrong. This not only include our friends who like same sex relations it also includes us hetrosexuals who engage in sex outside of marriage.
Secondly you read the bible long and harf enough you can see where you can get around the homosexual, bisexual and hetrosexual sex before Marriage. The New Testament God is meant to be all forgiving so f**k it love life enjoy your partners multiple, same, different and naughty and on your death bed be truly SORRY you will be forgiven, The quotes you recieved to your question were all old Testi quotes and that was the nasty, vengeful f**k you God, the one who killed Sodom and Gamora for enjoying your free choice.
Thirdly on free choice.... If you have free choice which is stated in the bible and quoted many a time in movies about God and involving him is it not a sin to go against your free choice and choose a partner of your choice for sex of any type.
Fourthly I say screw it. If you live the best life you can believing in God, Gods or Goddess in any way you can and be the best person, partner, parent, friend etc that you then aren't you not following God's design laid lout for us in the bible?
I say go for it mate because the bible she is a book full of cunundrums and you will get the answer you want if you read deep enough into it and the history of all the characters in it.
To finish remember Devils Advocate with Keanu Reeves and the best Satan I have ever seen Al Pacino. The quote goes.... "feel, but do not touch, Touch but taste and so on and so forth. Listen to that and then you will understand the real life relevance to not just following your heart......
IT IS ALL A HEAP OF S**T GIVEN TO USE BY A BOYS CLUB WHO FEEL GUILTY |
Anal Sex Question? I know of a young man who is gay. He is comfortable with that, but is not comfortable with being the giver/receiver of anal sex. He has no STDs, nor does his partner as they are both virgins.
He feels that it is gross to put his penis in a man's rectum, and vice versa. His partner is OK with it.
I am wondering what I can tell him to let him know that it's not unsanitary to engage in anal sex with someone whether or not you are giving/receiving it.
I think he's worried that fecal matter on his penis will give him an infection somehow, but he doesn't want to wear condoms because he/his partner are both disease-free.
He says he shouldn't be worried about anything anyway because if being gay is a gift (as his partner says) then "why should it harm [him] to be gay"?
Please send me any links to articles/personal experiences you may have so I can show him that he doesn't have much to worry about regarding this.
Please, no stupid answers. Thanks. |
| the desire to make love would come natuarally if it was supposed to be |
Straight fantasies? But I thought I was gay!? I thought I was gay but now I'm not so sure... recently I've been thinking a lot about sex with women. I imagine all sorts of different positions we could do it in. On the stairs, hanging on to a ladder, gravity-free; also all the different women I could do it with and how they might feel. Sometimes I get so into these fantasies that they seem so real and I want so badly to have them in real life!
But then I remember, wait a minute, this isn't right... I thought I was gay (even though I've always hated gay anal/oral sex, or kissing). Now I'm really confused. Am I lying to myself? Was I wrong about this?
Help me! I am so confused! |
| You sound confused! Sexual orientation is based on facts about what you feel with members of the same sex vs the opposite sex. Only you know what your preference is. You sound more curious to me than anything. Why did you think you were gay to begin with? Maybe you aren't a very sexual person? Otherwise why would you hate kissing or having sex. You need to evaluate what kind of relationship you want before you can begin to fulfill your needs and be able to meet your partners needs regardless of the gender you prefer. |
Around what age do guyren become interested in porn? I have a little brother, he's 11, about to turn 12 in December. He's always had gay tendencies, but it wasn't until now that they became obvious and flamboyant. Recently I took his lap top home to add a few things to it since his internet privileges have been suspended. I made a quick joke that if he was looking at porn, I would know. He hesitated and asked "How?" rather than saying "I haven't been."
So upon arriving home, I took a quick glance at his browsing history to find such things as:
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I'm somewhat concerned. I understand that guyren become curious around that age, but I also feel he is a bit too young. So I was wondering, when did YOU (the reader) start looking at, or becoming interested in porn? I want insight from male, female, straight, gay. Everyone! |
| I started when I noticed my grampas Playboy stash. I guess I was about 5. Then again, I wasn't REAL interested in his stash of Playboys until I was about 12. He then pretty much lost his stash b/c I stole it and hid it. |