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I have a question about sex? Ladies, I mean no disrespect at all.? Fellas, have you ever had sex with a woman that was normally unattractive to you in physique, face and was a big girl on top of that and found out that her sex was amazing. Well, my eyes were opened recently because I did just that, it's a long story, but it really taught me that a woman's looks on the outside have no bearing on how good her sex feels. It's a real question. If I offend any ladies, I apologize in advance, but I don't know how else to ask the question. By the way, I like BBW's anyway. | | yeah theres a sayin.... "big girls do it better." | I want to lose weight - what's your success story? I just had a conversation with my husband, and he confided that he would like me to lose some weight. And no, he's not an awful shallow person - we were talking about areas in our lives we could each improve on, and we asked eachother to be honest.
And I'm not suprised at all. When we got together, I weighed about 200lb, and right now I weigh 255. We've been married about 8 months, and that weight gain was all within the last year. I'm 5'5. I honestly know I need to lose weight, and I have tried several times. My husband tells me all the time that I am beautiful, and sexy, and that I turn him on. He is very affectionate, and I never feel like he judges me for my body - he loves me for me, I have no doubts.
A few weeks ago, I weighed 260, and I was able to lose 5lb by eating healthier and going on hikes. But somehow my will power just disappeared. I still walk and play with my dog in the park, but the eating has gotten out of control again. Food has always ruled my life, and I have always been heavy. I use food for comfort, boredom, fustration, and hunger.
Please don't tell me it's just a matter of will power - I already know this. My problem is.. it's easier said than done.
I love my husband, and we want to make our life together long, happy, and healthy. Please don't put him down for being honest with me - I told him theres some things he needs to work on also. I am willing to do anything I can to make him happy, and to make myself happy. Just like a mom would steal food for her starving guys... a fat wife should be willing to lose a few for her handsome, sexy hubby.
He's 5'11 and weighs about 195. Very muscley and ...Rawr! :D
Our sex life isn't hurting any, believe me - this isn't about looks. He said he wants me to lose weight so I would be happier with myself. I do have issues with how I look, and I pull the "Im so fat!" card more than I should. So he has a point.
Anyhow... what are your success stories? Has any BBW in my situation found a method that worked for her? | | In February of last year I weighed 198 pounds... now I weigh 119 and am in the best shape I have ever been in and keep getting better. I made working out a part of my life, stared eating healthier and drinking water instead of pop, or coffee all day. I did take Hoodia for 50 of the 80 pounds, but I have been off of it for several months... For my exercise, I would 'pace' back and forth in my living room for about 10-15 minutes one hour after I ate. I would also pace if was on the phone. Now I am using a flat baseball to do leg lifts and such with. I also eat very slowly, chewing my food deliberately and thoroughly usually not finishing my meal... Sex can be a wonderful 'workout tool'. Become adventurous, do things that require physical exertion. This has done wonders for our sex life, it was good before I lost the weight. It is mind blowing now. | GIRLS - Question about bf's/fiancees etc. & porn.? okay, so to make a long story short - i caught my fiancee looking at milf porn, he has done this at least 4 times now ( 4 long periods of times, months even ) and promised me that he would never do it again after the fact, and had also said he didn't want to wreck what we have and lose me etc. He was doing it while I was pregnant & walking to work in the winter, and I caught him then too. I just recently caught him looking at it now on his phone - and he tried to lie to me about that too - so now that leaves me with the thought of what should I do?
I'm extremely insecure, especially after having our daughter my body is definitely not what any guy would be attracted to ( I'm a bbw I suppose ) and I'm not sure how to deal with this anymore. I've told him many times I don't like it, and that it really upsets me. I feel like he wants them and not me, and that he wants me to look like them ( which I am FAR from ) and I beat myself up every day about it. It just adds to my already low self-esteem and makes me even more insecure.
What would any of you do in this position? ( and fyi - I don't have anything against porn - when we watch together. but when it's hidden from me I hate it. ) I'm sick of being lied to all the time and I'm not sure what to do. He tells me he likes big women yet he seems to gravitate towards thin women in porn, and has even gone as far to tell me who he thinks is hot ( Fergie, of all people EW )
Sorry it's long! I am just so confused and I really don't know what to do anymore. I love him very much, but I'm extremely tired of being lied to. It seems as if he doesn't care anymore, even though he says he does. I feel like I'm just the fat broad that lives here cooks, cleans, takes care of the baby & has sex with him. | I'm a man answering, I hope you don't mind.
I think that Nicole got it spot on, "is this the kind of guy you want to spend the rest of your life with?". As scary as it may sound, (the thought of you being on your own) you need to ask yourself that question.
Personally I think you're right, no man in a serious relationship should be pleasuring himself with porn. You really need to ask him why he does it, "I DON'T KNOW" is clearly a lie. I'm 19 years old now and single so I watch a lot of porn. The reason I watch porn now is simply for pleasure. However when I'm older I'd like to have the sort of relationship with my partner where we watch porn together. And by that time I wouldn't be watching porn for pleasure anymore, I would be watching it to get sex tips for me and my partner. So ask him why he does it.
Also you need to make him understand how you feel, I know you've told him already so he either doesn't understand, or doesn't care. In your case hopefully he doesn't understand. Have you shown him this question? If you haven't then I think you should, tell him to read it thoroughly so that he can understand how you feel.
If he still doesn't change and stop lying to you then I recommend you break up. Life is too short to spend time trying to change someone, it's much easier to leave them and find someone else who we don't need to change that much.
Hope this helps. |
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